Lady bosses

Nah, this isnt about that new malay movie (one of these days nak gak check it out coz i like saiful apek) its just about lady bosses in general. one thing's fer sure, you need to be on your toes around them !! i'm not bias or anything, just talking thru observation & experience. women tend to notice the 'little' things (yea yea me included) and its good so long as we dont allow ourselves to get all worked up over it and eventually lose sight of the bigger picture !!

Kena berpada-pada. a lot has to do with establishing the requirements in view of the available resources.... and prioritizing. everything must be taken into consideration. they say staying with the bigger picture is a man's forte. now does that mean the smaller stuff escapes them ?! lol ;)

Aah well, bosses come and go so we make do :)

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AH's been prattling non stop about her 'hateful' (for now) friends....... they're 'matchmaking' her with another geek. she hates it that they're always trying to 'couple' (their choice of words not mine) her with someone or other. she says shes not a desperate teenager thank you very much.... kenapa, tak 'couple' tak boleh ke???!!! lol.... thing is she'd probably be singing an entirely different tune if they did pair her off with 'SS' , this guy shes been carrying the torch for since she was 10. even if i still dont quite see what's there to go all ga-ga over (but what do i know, i'm ancient) its the cinta monyet thing i guess.

Kesian sebenarnya bebudak perempuan sekarang. not only are they expected to do well in school, they're also under pressure to be accepted by the mainstream groups and to prove that they're 'desirable' as well. it was probably the same back then but i dont remember it being quite as 'intense'... sometimes tu takde kesian punya specially if you're different (translated as 'that weirdo') and/or you're not considered one of the 'beautiful people' (translated as 'that poor ugly thang').

Of course we moms try to counter the effect with reassurances and support but peer expectation can be quite a heavy burden to bear. even if they are basically a well rounded little person to begin with, sikit sebanyak ada gak kesan pada their self-esteem. i hope it gets better when shes in form 2. hopefully this is just a transition period, that of adjusting from primary school mentality to secondary. and actually AH untung sebab she does have 2 bros (however obnoxious they might sometime seem to her lol) so when it comes to dealing with males, shes not all that clueless. which still leaves her the catty girls though. she'll have to maneuver her way around them i suppose. and of course she can always count on me to be her pendengar setia, if its any help.

Its tough being a teenager..... more so in this new millenium !!!!!

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Ok, i just checked out a new route for my jog/run. according to that 'whatever' meter in the car (yg kira distance tu laa), 1 lap around my entire office complex (the one encircling all 3 gates) is about 3.5 km. which means 2 laps would make it 7 km.... just nice for me to train in and a change from the usual tasik route :) about another month to go before the putrajaya half mara (still tak register sebab still tak sure). tinggal nak buat tak nak buat jer heh.

Mana urat berani awak cek pah !!!!!