Separate but together. Huh ?!!

Separate in our togetherness or together in our separateness ? hmmm... whatever.

I see people breaking up and one of the reason is ...... kongkongan.

I dunno but i'm thinking if we're going for the long haul in a relationship, we must have a slice of that 'togetherness' to call our very own. macamane loving, rapat n sehaluan theres always that 'thing' that marks us as an individual and if we forsake that individuality, somewhere along the line something's gonna give. we can perhaps fool ourselves part of the time but we cant do it all of the time. the soul slowly shrivels up and dies when we totally deny who and what we are.

Problem with new couples, they forego that right and embrace togetherness in total. of course we want to spend each and every minute of our time glued to our significant other; its only natural. but neglecting to appreciate each others differences and to allow some personal space early in a relationship makes it extremely difficult afterwards. klu dah asyik berkepit nanti ada yg merajuk bila tiba-tiba nak berenggang. So claim whatever time is due to you without guilt whilst at the same time allow your partner to pursue his/her interest without rancour. Lets celebrate our 'separateness' and come together recharged & all the more passionate for each other ;)


Oh, my boy is coming home from Sg Petani for the weekend and the brood is full once again. my cup runneth over !!